Funnier in Latin
The How? Why? What? of Femslash
by Slay Candy
This Essay has a *NC-17* Rating
First of all, some people don't know what really
goes on between women when they are in a relationship together. This
is going to take a look at how women pleasure each other in a lesbian
partnership, this can help for fic writers learn how to write
female/female ships better. However a strict warning on this essay it
is based on sexual relations between two women, it is adult content,
so consider yourself warned!
As we all know women don't have penises, but that
isn't important when it comes to pleasuring another woman. What it
comes down to is knowing how to use what you have got. A woman has
fingers and these can be used very effectively in lesbian
relationships, as can the tongue.
Fingers are a vital part of pleasuring a woman in a
lesbian relationship. The clit of course is one of the most sensual
places a woman can be aroused, using fingers to 'play' here can give
extreme pleasure. Some people like to have the feeling of being
penetrated, so fingers will be put inside of the vagina. Because there
is more freedom with fingers every movement inside of the woman will be
felt by her, and that can be very nice. If you have heard of fisting
and you think it's all bout shoving your fist inside of a woman then
you've got it all wrong. This is where you begin by putting your
fingers in and moving them in and out, you keep adding more fingers
until the entire hand is going in. It is not a clenched fist, but a
smooth sort of spoon shape. Thee are ways women can pleasure each
other with their hand.
There is also oral sex, in which a woman will use
her tongue in very much the same way as her fingers. The tongue can be
used on the clit to give the same effect as before. And again the
tongue can also be inserted inside of a woman too. Please note that
with the manual and oral sex stated so far both men and women can do
this to another woman of course.
Of course, women can have 'sex' as well. Dildos can
be used to perform sex, however you will find that a lot of lesbians
do not do this. A dildo is a sort of plastic-rubber penis. (Read more
about this in the toys piece) Some people feel that this makes sex
into a male/female thing not two females. But these are used by a lot
of women. In reality they are also rather hard to use, however if you
read about them in fics this doesn't seem to come through a lot as
people want to keep the heat in their fics.
Well I have gone over just a little bit of the how
and why and what when it comes to lesbian sex and I hope it has helped
de-fog some of your brains as to what goes on behind closed doors.